Unleash Your Inner Floral Designer: Bouquet Arranging Tips From Your Local Flower Farmer
- Erica Wendland
- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
Bloom-Worthy Tips from the Farm Stand to Your Kitchen Table

There’s just something about arranging your own bouquet — the quiet moment, the creativity, the way your shoulders drop the second you start playing with petals. And here’s the truth: you don’t need to be a florist to design something beautiful. You just need great blooms, a little guidance, and the permission to have fun with it.
Around here at Wendland Family Farm, we see magic happen all the time — from little hands designing their first bouquet to guests at our Let It Bloom workshops who swear they “aren’t creative” and then walk out beaming like they just discovered a superpower.
Today, I’m sharing our favorite bouquet arranging tips and secrets so you can bring that same joy straight into your home.
Bouquet Arranging Tips: Start with the Right Flowers (and Follow Your Mood)
Every bouquet begins with intention. Are you aiming for bold and celebratory? Think sunflowers, zinnias, roses, peonies — the ones that shout hello, world!
Prefer something soft and peaceful? Lean into lilies, pastel roses, baby’s breath, or anything that gives “Sunday morning quiet.”
A quick farm-girl tip: Freshness matters more than anything else. Look for perky petals, sturdy stems, and no browning or drooping. And don’t skip the greenery — eucalyptus, ferns, and wild bits from the field add depth, texture, and that effortless, just-picked charm we all love.

Pick a Vase That Works With Your Flowers
Your vase is the stage. Make it count.
Tall blooms? Choose a taller vase so nothing flops.
Shorter, rounder flowers? A squat or rounded container will let them shine.
Want cozy + rustic? Mason jars and farm-style containers always win.
Going modern and classy? Clear glass or ceramic does the trick.
If your flowers are loud and colorful, go neutral with the vessel. If your bouquet is soft and monochrome, try a bold vase to give it personality.
Play with Color Like a Pro
Color doesn’t have to be scary. Here are the same go-to combinations we use in our own farm bouquets:
Analogous colors (neighbors on the color wheel): Think reds + oranges + yellows. Easy, warm, and always cohesive.
Complementary colors (across from each other): Purple + yellow, pink + green, blue + orange. These combos pop.
Monochromatic: One color, many shades. Elegant, clean, and never fails.
Don’t overthink it. Your eye knows more than you realize — trust it.

The Arranging Techniques That Change Everything
Here’s where the fun begins — and where we see people light up during our Let It Bloom workshops.

1. Start with Greenery
It’s your foundation. It creates structure and the “shape” of your bouquet.
2. Add Your Statement Blooms
Place your big showstoppers first. They set the tone.
3. Layer Smaller Blooms
Fill in the gaps with medium and small flowers. Think of these as your supporting cast.
4. Try the Spiral Technique
Hold the bouquet loosely and add each stem at an angle, turning as you go. This is the secret to those perfectly rounded bouquets you see in photos.
5. Leave Breathing Room
Negative space = elegance. Let the flowers stand-alone instead of crowding them.
6. Always Cut Stems at an Angle
More surface area = better hydration = longer life.

Make It Last
Refresh the water. Trim the stems. Keep your creation away from direct sun and heat. Do those three things, and your bouquet will stay fresher, fuller, and happier.
Final Thoughts — And a Little Invitation
Floral design isn’t about perfection; it’s about play. It’s slowing down long enough to appreciate shape, color, texture — and the simple joy of creating something beautiful with your own hands.
And if you ever want to learn these techniques hands-on, laugh with other flower lovers, and walk away with a bouquet you’re proud of, we’d love to have you join us for a Let It Bloom workshop here at Wendland Family Farm. You bring the creativity. We’ll bring the flowers.
Happy arranging, friend — you’ve got more floral talent than you realize.







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